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Most Commented Dilemmas
Sport
Running from everything but myself
I started running again. Not for health, not for fun, but because it's the only thing that shuts my brain up for a little while. I need the side hustle money, but I also need to not feel like I'm drowning every damn day. The problem is, I'm slow. Painfully slow. And every time I pass someone younger, faster, happier, it's like a reminder that I'm stuck. Still in the same town, still in the same headspace, still living where I was hurt. My partner is supportive, but they're far away, and sometimes I wonder if they even see how much I'm barely holding on. I don't know if I'm running toward something or just trying to outrun the weight of all the years I've wasted feeling like this. Maybe I should quit. Maybe I'm too old for this. Maybe I'm just bad at it. But then what? Sit around and feel sorry for myself even more? I don't know.
Health
Can’t stop comparing myself to others
I hate that I’m always comparing myself to everyone else. It’s like I can’t help but notice how everyone else seems to be doing so much better than me. I’m constantly on social media, looking at what others have, and it just makes me feel worse about myself. How do I stop comparing myself to others?
Education
I feel stupid next to everyone in my class
No matter how hard I study, I always feel behind. Everyone else gets it fast and I need more time, more help. I feel dumb, like I dont belong here. Teachers say Im doing fine but they dont see how much I struggle. Im scared I wont make it.